Who that was innocent ever perished? Or where were the upright cut off?
Job 4:7

When I was a freshman in high school, I had Mr. Seiler for Freshman Physics. It sounds more daunting than it probably was for most students (although I found it extremely challenging because of all the math involved).

One of the things I do remember learning from Mr. Seiler was Isaac Newton’s Third Law of Motion: “For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.”

We learned this by pushing on a small car. The harder we pushed, the further the car went.

Unfortunately, I also learned about the Third Law of Motion while driving my own car when I was 19. No one was hurt, but the other car also went pretty far when I hit it from behind!

The idea that one action leads to another action runs through nature and is not relegated to just motion.

If I hit my big toe hard on the edge of the couch, I will hurt it and be tempted to say bad words.

If I climb a ladder onto the roof my garage and it slips out from under me on a warm February day, I will fall to the ground and break my wrist requiring surgery, pins and a metal plate.

If I study diligently for a test in a Gospel of Matthew Class – after listening intently, doing all my homework throughout the semester, asking questions, and talking often with the professor – I will get an “A” on that test.

But the idea of “for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction” isn’t universal. And that’s part of the lesson of the Book of Job.

Job lost his wealth, his health, and his ten children. He had gone through a seven-day mourning period.

Three of his friends came and Sat Shiva with him. They followed the protocol of Sitting Shiva by not speaking unless Job spoke first.

Job finally speaks after seven days. He curses the day he was born.

This allows his friends to respond.

Eliphaz is the first to speak.

And what Eliphaz says is not comforting to Job nor would it be to anyone.

He says, and I’m paraphrasing, “If something bad happened to you, you must have deserved it.”

His words: “Remember: who that was innocent ever perished? Or where were the upright cut off? As I have seen, those who plow iniquity and sow trouble reap the same” (Job 4:7-8).

I imagine that if my child had died and one of my friends came up to me and said, “You must have done something bad to deserve this” then that person wouldn’t be my friend anymore.

In Job’s case, his friends are dupes. They are being used by Satan.

Remember, all this is happening to Job because God allowed Satan to do all this. Satan didn’t stop with the taking away of wealth, health, and progeny.

Satan is still at work trying to get Job to give up his faith in God. Or in the words of Job’s wife (also a dupe of Satan), “Curse God and die!”

I don’t think these dupes know they are being dupes, but they are using the words of Satan to try to bring down Job.

roaring-lionIn verse 10 Eliphaz says, “The roar of the lion, the voice of the fierce lion, the teeth of the young lions are broken.”

Interesting! St. Peter said, “Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8).

Satan uses similar tactics on us!

Eliphaz might have realized that his words to Job came from a demonic realm if he were listening to himself, “A spirit glided past my face; the hair of my flesh stood up. It stood still, but I could not discern its appearance. A form was before my eyes; there was silence, then I heard a voice: ‘Can mortal man be in the right before God? Can a man be pure before his Maker?” (Job 4:15-17)

Sounds like a demon to me! And the questions about God? Sounds awfully familiar to Satan’s questions of Eve in the Garden of Eden!

When something bad happens to us, I pray that a man or woman of God will come to comfort us with the sure and certain words of hope that come from God’s Holy Word alone.

Words like, “The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him” (Romans 8:16-17).

And, “For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 8:38-39).

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Cursing the Day You Were Born

After this Job opened his mouth and cursed the day of his birth.
Job 3:1

About thirteen years ago, I was working in my church office when a phone call came in. It was from a family of dairy farmers that were members of a sister congregation. Their pastor was out of the country and I was covering for him in case of emergencies. This was such a time.

There had been an accident at the farm. One of the children had been killed by a farm implement. Could I come and help the family?

I went out there. Mom was at the kitchen table. In shock, she told me what happened. After I sat and prayed with her I went out to the barn.

Dad was out there, taking care of the cows. He, too, was in shock. But you can’t just stop working on a dairy farm. I stood with him a while and prayed with him.

childs-casketA few days later, I presided at the funeral. This little boy was only four years old. Same age as my youngest son. I had never preached at a funeral for a child. It was very difficult for me. The little boy even resembled my son! But my difficulty was nothing compared to this family’s.

What I said to them was that we were not made to bury our own children. Death was not part of the plan at all, but certainly the death of one of our children was not something that parents should have to go through.

Yet, some do. And I told them to take heart, because they have a God who knows exactly how they feel. God the Father, too, buried his own Son, Jesus!

Still, because of the death of Jesus, this little boy was now in heaven living forever. And there will be a happy reunion with him and all those who fall asleep – die – in Jesus.

Job also knew the pain of burying his own children. Losing his wealth and his health, he also lost all ten of his children and after seven days of mourning in silence, Job finally speaks.

He pens a poem that reveals the depth of his grief, at the bottom of which is this thought: he wished he had never been born.

In his depressed state of mind, he feels that if he had not been born – or worse, died in child birth – then none of this would have happened.

In a sense, I guess he’s right. It seems logical that if Job had not been born his children would not have been born and then they wouldn’t have died.

Job becomes quite poetic in spelling out this thought of his.

And then Job says something profound: Why is light given to a man whose way is hidden, whom God has hedged in? (Job 3:23).

Normally, when the Bible says that God “hedges” someone in it is for their protection. But in this context, it seems to mean that God has condemned Job to a prison of pain and sorrow. He goes on living while his children lay buried in the ground.

For all the good things that Job is said to have been, “blameless,” “steadfast,” “not sinning with his lips,” now he is starting to lash out in pain and anger.

He also already said that God gives and God takes away. But now it seems that Job is saying, “But I don’t have to like it.”

Not knowing the reason for all this happening to him, we might be inclined to cut Job a break.

But Job has to go through all of this to learn what he – and we – are supposed to learn from it.

Patience. Trust. Integrity. Faith.

As do we, when we are faced with temptations and trials. We must go through them all the way.

But we go through them with God. He will be right there with us. As it says in Psalm 23, “Yea, thought I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, thou are with me.

And he is. God is with us. Our God who knows the sorrow of burying a Son and the joy that awaits those who have faith in his Son – the joy of resurrection and reunion and never ending life in heaven!

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Sitting Shiva

And [Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar] sat with [Job] on the ground seven days and seven nights, and no one spoke a word to him, for they saw that his suffering was very great.
Job 2:13

The first time I ever saw a dead body was at the funeral of my grandfather.

It was weird, seeing him just lying there. He kind-of looked like he was asleep, but I knew better.

When my grandfather slept he made all kinds of noises. He wasn’t now. He also tended to jerk around some. He wasn’t now.

Most people go through their whole life seeing maybe a dozen or two dead bodies – attending funerals of loved ones and friends. The number tends to increase the older you get and the older your friends and family get.

But as a pastor for going on 22 years, I have been averaging 30-35 funerals per year. It’s an occupational thing, to be sure.

But I guess I never really thought about how many dead bodies I would see as a pastor when I was in school.

I’ve been to homes just as the funeral director gets there or even before he does. I’ve been in the hospital room or hospice room as death occurs.

And no matter how many times I witness death, I always have the same fear.

What do I say?

sitting-shivaThe best thing to say is … nothing at all. There is a Jewish custom about this called “Sitting Shiva.”

Shiva is the week-long period of mourning following a loved one’s death. During this time, family members traditionally gather to receive visitors. The word “shiva” means seven, signifying the seven-day mourning period in which mourners are supposed to sit low to the ground.

This is what Job’s three friends initially do upon hearing about the death of his ten children.

Take a look at this video from Matt Popovits on “What do say at a funeral.” Make sure your speakers are on and your sound is turned up on your computer.

The best thing about Matt’s video is when he says:

Death sucks.

God is good.

Jesus is fixing it.

When someone you know suffers the death of a loved one, just be there for them.

Sit with them. Pray for them. Offer them specific help, “Can I bring you a casserole on Thursday?” (I’m Lutheran, so casseroles are my go-to comfort food.)

Job’s three friends Sit Shiva with him for seven days. They get down in the dirt with Job. They grieve with him.

And that’s a good thing.

But after they are given permission to speak – because Job speaks first – they do some rather unhelpful things. That’s coming up in a future devotion.

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Thinking Ahead

Satan went out from the presence of the Lord and struck Job with loathsome sores from the sole of his foot to the crown of his head. And he took a piece of broken pottery with which to scrape himself while he sat in the ashes.
Job 2:7-8

Wealth is fleeting. Health is perishable.

The only thing that is eternal is our soul and God.

So, what do we focus on?

In a recent family devotion, I asked my family the question, “If you knew this was going to be your last day on earth, what would you do?’

My sixteen-year-old said, “Eat junk food.”

My eighteen-year-old said, “Drink a lot of soda pop.”

My wife said, “Spend time with family and eat cheese cake.”

chips-and-cheese-dipAnd I said, “Spend time with family.” I didn’t tell them that I would also eat an entire bag of potato chips with jalapeño cheese sauce.

The truth, however, is that we never really know when our last day in this life will be. It could be today. It could be 80 years from now.

When I was a teenager, I was immortal. Well, at least I felt I was immortal. I never thought of my own death. I ate pretty much what I wanted to. I didn’t really take care of myself physically because I wasn’t thinking of “down the road.”

It wasn’t long, however, that I discovered the truth, “You are only immortal for a limited time.”

I was at the doctor’s office the other day. In the last year, I’ve started to take my health seriously. With the doctor’s advice, counseling, and prescription pad I was able to lower my cholesterol to a safe level. I was also able to lower my weight to more manageable and healthy poundage.

But being nearly 52, some things are too late. I asked about the sagging skin around my middle. “Will that shrink back into shape?” I asked him.

He said no. It had been too long and I’ve gotten too long in the tooth for that to happen. If I want to get rid of the sagging skin that used to be propped up by fat, I will first have to commit to keep the pounds off and then see a plastic surgeon.

He said that if I had committed to this healthier lifestyle when I was younger, I wouldn’t have this problem.

If only I had listened to those who were trying to tell me exactly that when I was younger.

But I was “immortal” and didn’t think about the future so much. I just didn’t think, period.

The Book of Job in the Old Testament is meant to help us to think about our future. Wealth is fleeting. Health is perishable.

But we can count on two things. We will live beyond this life if we continue to remain faithful to God Almighty. And God will never stop loving us! He is our Redeemer who lives eternally!

There are some things that I’m going to have to live with even as I get healthier now in my early 50’s.

But I also have faith in Jesus Christ and that is going to let me live eternally.

And someday, I’ll be seeing Christ my Redeemer with my own eyes and never have to worry about cholesterol, fat, wealth and health again.

I wonder if there will be chips and cheese dip in heaven?

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Lenten Devotional Resource from True Men Ministries

Journey to Calvary is a reprint of the 2003 Lenten Devotions I wrote for Lutheran Hour Ministries (and journey-to-calvary-book-coverused with permission).

Starting with Ash Wednesday, March 1, you can take a journey to the cross of Christ through the Penitential Psalms.

Culminating on Easter Sunday, this journey will – God-willing – bring you closer to Christ.

You can pick up a copy of Journey to Calvary here.


Like a Mama Bear

Then his wife said to him, “Do you still hold fast your integrity? Curse God and die.” But he said to her, “You speak as one of the foolish women would speak. Shall we receive good from God, and shall we not receive evil?” In all this Job did not sin with his lips.
Job 2:9-10

Two friends were walking in the Northern Woods. They were enjoying their hike through a large meadow when they happened upon two bear cubs.

They froze in their tracks, then slowing began to back up.

Then all of sudden mama bear came barreling out of the woods on the other side of the meadow.

The two friends quickly made their way back up the trail. When they got to end of the meadow, one of them stopped, dropped his backpack and started frantically going through it.

“What are you doing?!?!?! She’ll be on us any minute! We’ve got to keep going!” said his friend.

Finding what he was searching for, the other friend quickly pulled off his hiking boots and started to put on his running shoes.

“Running shoes? That’s what you stopped for? You took so much time looking for your shoes you’ll never be able to outrun this mama bear!” his friend cried.

“I don’t have to outrun this mama bear. I only have to outrun you!”

Okay, that’s an old joke. I apologize!

mama-bearBut mama bears are no joking matter. They will defend their cubs to the death and you can take that to the bank!

With a two-part test, God allows for Job to lose all his wealth, his health, and his ten children.

The only things Job is left with – the only things God doesn’t allow Satan to attack – are his life and his wife.

There’s a very good reason for Job being allowed to keep both his life and his wife, as we’re going to see in chapter 42.

But in all the lessons the Book of Job teaches us, what gets missed oftentimes is Job’s wife.

She is just as affected by this two-fold test as Job is, except the health crisis.

She witnesses the loss of all that wealth, the health of her husband, and the death of their ten children.

She becomes like a mama bear who has just lost her cubs! But she can’t attack God, at least not directly. So she attacks the only one she can – Job!

In this, however, we see a difference between Job and his wife. Job, in his faith, never doubts God. He doesn’t blame God, he accepts all that has happened to him as God’s plan. And he certainly does not curse God – as Satan was betting he would do.

Job’s wife, on the other hand, sees things a bit differently. She can’t understand how Job can seemingly take all this in stride.

“Curse God and die,” she says.

Job recognizes this attitude as folly. He isn’t calling his wife a fool, just pointing out the folly of only being a faithful follower of God when good things happen and cursing God when bad things happen.

I’m inclined to give Job’s wife a little break here. After all, she had just buried her ten children. She must be grieving. I don’t see a lack of faith in her, just a grief that causes her to lash out like a mama bear to her husband.

For the rest of the book we will not hear from Job’s wife again. Job will only reference her twice in his various speeches.

But since she will witness restoration, she will be a mother again to ten more children with Job, we can be sure that Job continues to love her and doesn’t hold this lashing out against her.

Job keeps his focus on the fact that God is good. And Job’s wife will see that more clearly, having seen all that happened to Job.

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The Test, Part 2

Then Satan answered the Lord and said, “Skin for skin! All that a man has he will give for his life. But stretch out your hand and touch his bone and his flesh, and he will curse you to your face.”
Job 2:4-5

It was a Saturday morning and I didn’t feel well at all. I was sick. Couldn’t keep my breakfast down. And I was running a pretty high fever.

By noon my fever was still high and I had a pain on the right side of my belly.

My wife drove me to the ER. Within two hours I was in surgery having my appendix removed.

recovery-from-appendectomy-300x199When I woke up from surgery I noticed that there was a lot of blood all over my gown. This concerned me. So I asked the nurse what the deal was.

She said that during the surgery, the doctor nicked an artery and that’s where all the blood came from. She also told me they were going to keep me an extra day to make sure the bleeding had stopped.

The next day I was still in pretty rough shape. I was resting in my hospital room when the phone began to ring.

However, it was on the other side of the room and I would have to get out of bed to pick it up. Being pretty weak and still in pain, I let it ring. I figured whoever was calling me would call back another time.

But the phone kept ringing. And ringing. And ringing.

Finally I struggled to get out of bed, shuffled over to the phone and picked it up. By this time I was in considerable pain, tired, and not a little irritated.

On the other end of the phone was the principal of the day school of the church I was serving. She was calling to ask if I was going to be at the school board meeting that evening.

She called me and let the phone ring and ring and ring until I picked up.

She called me at the hospital knowing full well that I had just had surgery and was recovering.

As I look back on my appendicitis adventure, I realize that God was testing the strength of my faith. Would I have the strength of faith to be able to deal with fellow ministry team members in a kind and compassionate way?

I failed that test on the phone that day.

Could this be the reason that two years later I had another stay in the hospital, this time to remove my gall bladder? I was serving the same church. I was in the same amount of pain.

But I did learn from the tests. I was much more compassionate and kind in my dealing with people after that surgery.

In part 1 of Job’s “test” Satan accuses him as only being a faithful man of God because he is wealthy and has a large family.

Satan tried to prove that Job was materialistic but fails when God allows for Job to lose all his wealth and endure the death of all ten of his children.

Satan comes back with another accusation. Job will surely curse God and toss his faith in God’s face if God were to allow Job to lose his health.

God knows better. God knows that Job’s faith is beyond both material and physical blessings.

In order to teach us this, God allows Job to be struck down with disease.

Still, Job does not give up his faith. He still confesses his belief and love of God, “Shall we receive good from God, and shall we not receive evil?’ This is another way of saying that there is a greater plan in all of this.

And in this Job would be correct. This isn’t really about Job’s possessions, his health or his children.

Possessions are fleeting. Health is ultimately perishable.

The death of Job’s children is slightly different. And we’ll get to that when we explore the Restoration of Job in Chapter 42.

And still, Job will not sin by cursing God and giving up his faith in God.

We need to see all the bad things that happen in our lives as opportunities for our faith in God to be strengthen.

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