God became a human being. Unique among the world religions.
God also died to save all human beings. Also unique among the world religions.
I focus on these two things – that God became a human being and that God died to save humanity (and me) – during this time of year.
Everything else is not worth worrying, whining, or wishing about.
I wish you a very blessed Christmas and pray that God will touch your heart in a special way this Christmas.